Se x is everywhere. It permeates television shows, the Internet, and
magazines. Even children’s movies often have thinly veiled sexual
overtones.
Today, society’s carefree thinking on se x out of wedlock is simply,
“Why not?” Believing that “most are doing it anyway,” Most people say
we’re in the 21st century and that’s now legal, but 99% of things that
are legal are not right. Is this a bad thing? Most say no.
To support this position, some cite the well- documented health benefits
of being sexually active. some even say “”does se x belong only inside
a marriage relationship””? What is wrong with reaping all the physical
benefits of sex outside of wedlock so long as one is “smart” about it?
hmmmm but I tell u, there are dangers for the sexually active person: transmission of diseases, unwanted pregnancies, and potential emotional scarring from a promiscuous lifestyle of multiple partners.
see our generation where teenage pregnancies are rampant. you meet
young people “where they are” and talk openly about se x. Educators hope
to arm teens with enough information to dispel the mystery of sex so
they can “decide when they are ready” to lose their virginity.
“One of the things young people say a lot is that the sex education
they get is virtually meaningless, it’s too biological and doesn’t
relate to how they are feeling. Essentially, parents have concluded
they are no longer able to stop children from having se x. The best they
can hope to do is teach them about it. sexually transmitted diseases
have reached an unprecedented level. Even the “safest” sex can result
in unintended pregnancies This can lead to the tragic decision to end
the unborn child’s life through abortion, something a woman will carry
for the rest of her life.
If the couple decides to go ahead with the pregnancy, children of
unmarried parents are often susceptible to a host of physical and
emotional problems. children born to women who did not intend to get
pregnant have been found to have lower birthweight, poorer mental and
physical health, lower educational attainment, and morebehavioral problems than do children whose births were intended.”
Men and women who are products of broken homes
often have children out of wedlock as well, which leads to a vicious,
multigenerational cycle of unhappiness. Couples who wait enjoy
significantly more benefits than those who had se x earlier.. A
healthy, happy marital relationship produces similar relationships in
the lives of children who come from them. In short, happy couples
produce happy children. It is a parent’s job to proactively teach about
se x.
Yet parents have to compete with what their children learn
from this world’s “sexperts”—the hyper sexualized media, permissive
sexual education at school, misguided how-to websites—as well as their
peers. While these sources may supply some correct information about
purely physical aspects, the majority of what they teach includes much
error. Add to this the pull on young people to learn by their own
experiences, which can be painful. Because of these factors, many
parents, who do not truly understand the purpose of sex, are perfectly
happy to outsource the difficult job.
On the other hand, well-meaning parents who seek to discourage
premarital sex might simply say: “Because I said so!” or even, “Because
God said it’s a sin!” Others, feeling it is inevitable that their child
will have sex, may hand their son or daughter a condom and tell them to
“be safe.”
In both scenarios, parents merely pass along what they feel is right
or what others have told them—without ever proving the truth for
themselves. By comiting to premarital sex you risk…..
1. The risk of disobeying God and letting Satan get a foothold The
Bible, time after time tells us to flee sexual sins. Why? Because it is a
major strategy of the devil to sabotage God’s work on Earth.
2. The risk of shame Premarital sex imputes a spiritual state of
shame that becomes a major weapon of Satan. God forgives you, but you
will still face the fruit of the sin and you’ll still be vulnerable to
Satan’s whispering accusations on your worth as a person and your value
as an active individual.
3. The risk of sexual dysfunction People spend millions of dollars to
correct sexual dysfunction through drugs and psychotherapy. Why?
Because they entered marriage with unresolved sexual issues. For
example, a man may think that he will be free from the curse of
Indecency once he gets married, only to find that the problems are even
more noticeable and controlling.
4. The risk of placing your future children in spiritual harm’s way The Bible clearly speaks of the concept
of generational sin. What you sow (plant) spiritually may be reaped in
the life of your children. Break the power of Satan’s curse. Remain pure
before God and you’ll be tenaciously guarding the future of the next
generation. ,
5. The risk of depression Those who participate in premarital sex
experience emotional damage that may lead to an increased chance of
mental depression and emotional despair.
6. The risk of permanently damaging your testimony as a Christian or
Muslim You’ll never be able to honestly say, “I was a virgin before I
was married.” You’ll never be able to live as an example of committed
purity.
7. The risk of damaging the destiny of your future marriage There is
no way that premarital se x of any kind could be a plus for your future
marriage. It only causes suspicion, mistrust, and regret.
8. Risks of incurable disease Imagine that you have found that one
special person with whom you want to share your life. And now you are
forced to break the news that you have an incurable disease. Even though
such diseases like herpes are generally not considered life
threatening, there are no cures. Not only is it incurable, it fills a
life with worries, awkward revelations, and continuous need for
medication. Herpes and other STD’s are everywhere. Why risk contracting
an STD?
9. The risk of lost relationships When you choose to develop a sexual
relationship with someone, you have immediately changed the entire definition
of the relationship. God’s intent was for a man and woman to enjoy sex
throughout the course of a lifetime. There is no such thing as casual
sex. Once you have developed a sexual relationship, that relationship
turns a critical corner. After the relationship ends, you and your
partner will experience the guilt and pain of promises broken.
10. The risk of death No one can deny that having sex before marriage can have grave consequences. disease like AIDS and its likes kills its victims. The choice is yours
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Thursday 25 February 2016
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