.s*x is a total-body experience. It’s not just touching her, or looking at her, or hearing her moan.
It’s all of that—and more.
Here is how to improve your woman’s s*xual experience using her sense organs;
Where Does Pleasure Start?
With
a glimpse of skin—or the first touch? Maybe it’s the sound of her key
in your door. We use our five senses primarily for purposes other than
enjoyment. s*x is a chance to use them to just experience your body. And
hers. And yours with hers. Employ all five senses, and s*x is more than
a roll in the sack. It’s pure pleasure.
TOUCH
Touch
is a woman’s primary trigger for desire.With the other senses, you’re
not necessarily engaged while your partner experiences it. But touch is
reciprocal: “You can feel me touching you while I experience touching
you.”
Take
advantage with a s*x therapy technique called “sensate focus.” Have
your partner lie flat on her back with her eyes closed, and slowly
caress her head and face—hair, nose, ears, lips; cover it all. Pretend
this is your last chance to savor her body. Move to her torso and legs
and feet, then flip her over and repeat.
The
point is to chart new er*tic territory. The private parts, breasts, and
inner thighs have the most nerve receptors, so they’re most sensitive.
But almost any body part can become er*tic if you learn to associate it
with s*xual pleasure.
SMELL
Your
natural scent may actually be one of the most powerful tools in your
arousal arsenal. There is some evidence that humans have pheromones.
So
sweat together: Exercise activates your apocrine glands, the site of
pheromone release in primates. Each woman reacts differently, but
research shows that musk can decrease vaginal bloodflow; women may
associate the scent with jerks. Instead, dust your bod in baby powder,
which can elevate vaginal bloodflow, or for a first date, wear
eucalyptus, camphor, and menthol. These scents increase empathy.
SOUND
Your
moaning may excite her, but it’s probably not what sends her over the
edge. Sounds cue men in to whether a woman is really enjoying s*x, but
women can physically see when a man is aroused. What she really craves
is communication. In the form of four-letter words.
If
whispering explicit nothings doesn’t come naturally, simply tell her
what you want during s*x, but substitute naughty words for your normal
s*xual vocab. You don’t want her to feel out of control. Start by
telling her to do things you already know she’s comfortable with.
Or let music do the job for you. Explicit lyrics can have the same effect as dirty talk. Turn it into foreplay.
SIGHT
Most
women don’t want pictures of your man-hood. But not because they think
your it is repulsive; they just want to see all of you. Men are often
turned on by body parts, but most women are turned on by context and
people. When women look at s*xual pictures, they look at many things
besides private parts—what’s on the table, the color of the flowers.
It’s not that she’s more interested in the centerpiece than your
man-hood: Women just use more visual cues to guide their attraction.
Research
suggests that the most resounding cue may, in fact, be your face.
Instead of shooting her a dirty pic, send a head shot with a sexy
caption. But in bed, let her see all the action: Have her lie on her
back, knees up, and kneel between her legs. More of your muscles will be
visible and activated. Plus, she can watch you penetrate.
TASTE
Katy
Perry kissed a girl. . .and what did she remember? The taste of cherry
ChapStick. Women care more than men do about a pleasant-tasting mouth,
possibly because their sense of taste is more finely tuned. But the
effect is more Pavlovian than primal: If a taste reminds you of a
successful s*xual experience, it will induce arousal.
If
she doesn’t dig the taste of semen, you probably aren’t going to change
her mind. So take the more obvious route to gustatory arousal: food.
Choose a food she rarely eats but enjoys—ay, chocolate-covered
cherries—and feed it to her during foreplay.
The
s*x reinforces the pleasure of food, and the pleasure of food
reinforces the s*x. Eventually the food alone may be enough to trigger
her arousal.
Source: MensHealth
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